Comments on: Nightly Insight and More http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2007/10/23/nightly-insight-and-more/ Thu, 10 Feb 2011 04:04:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Austin http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2007/10/23/nightly-insight-and-more/comment-page-1/#comment-173 Austin Sat, 27 Oct 2007 02:52:33 +0000 http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2007/10/23/nightly-insight-and-more/#comment-173 The fact that you question your position as his Aunt says to me you have his best interests at heart and that you have the healthy state of mind he needs to grow up in your family. The relationship you have with Noah is a priceless one. How you work with him, play with him, talk with him shows me he is in good hands. Like anyone else I'm sure you've made mistakes but you know what? You cannot take responsibility for what others have or have not done. All you can do is what you can do, nothing more. From where I'm standing, you've done a heck of a lot JAGA, a whole heck of a lot. I'm proud of you for that. Your parenting skills come from within, come from the heart. You do it well. Smiles to you and yours, Austin The fact that you question your position as his Aunt says to me you have his best interests at heart and that you have the healthy state of mind he needs to grow up in your family.

The relationship you have with Noah is a priceless one. How you work with him, play with him, talk with him shows me he is in good hands. Like anyone else I’m sure you’ve made mistakes but you know what? You cannot take responsibility for what others have or have not done. All you can do is what you can do, nothing more. From where I’m standing, you’ve done a heck of a lot JAGA, a whole heck of a lot. I’m proud of you for that. Your parenting skills come from within, come from the heart. You do it well.

Smiles to you and yours,
Austin

]]> By: Keepers http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2007/10/23/nightly-insight-and-more/comment-page-1/#comment-170 Keepers Fri, 26 Oct 2007 01:48:57 +0000 http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2007/10/23/nightly-insight-and-more/#comment-170 you seem to be approaching this very carefully and responsibly and we applaud you for the effort you are putting forth. it is very obvious how very important this is to you peace and blessings and hugs keepers you seem to be approaching this very carefully and responsibly and we applaud you for the effort you are putting forth. it is very obvious how very important this is to you

peace and blessings and hugs

keepers

]]> By: jumpinginpuddles http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2007/10/23/nightly-insight-and-more/comment-page-1/#comment-166 jumpinginpuddles Wed, 24 Oct 2007 00:37:41 +0000 http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2007/10/23/nightly-insight-and-more/#comment-166 we often wonder how people like us cna help our five children and how bad a job we are doing etc etc but he truth is we arent we just expect ourselves to think we are if that makes sense we often wonder how people like us cna help our five children and how bad a job we are doing etc etc but he truth is we arent we just expect ourselves to think we are if that makes sense

]]> By: melissa http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2007/10/23/nightly-insight-and-more/comment-page-1/#comment-165 melissa Tue, 23 Oct 2007 18:47:00 +0000 http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2007/10/23/nightly-insight-and-more/#comment-165 I am not sure exactly from what you wrote what Staci told you about what Noah is thinking or feeling. But I will say this, you are a fantastic aunt and have always done your very very best. I think we cannot always be aware of every dynamic happening and some family dynamics are what they are, especially most likely in your family. there are lots of gray areas, especially in raising a child that you dont see until retrospect. Ie. you see later that it might have been better to handle it this way than that. The only thing you can do is the best you can and seeking out advice when you're not sure. I know how much Noah means to you and am hoping you know that Noah knows that too. I am sure you will figure out the best way to proceed. hugs melissa I am not sure exactly from what you wrote what Staci told you about what Noah is thinking or feeling. But I will say this, you are a fantastic aunt and have always done your very very best. I think we cannot always be aware of every dynamic happening and some family dynamics are what they are, especially most likely in your family. there are lots of gray areas, especially in raising a child that you dont see until retrospect. Ie. you see later that it might have been better to handle it this way than that. The only thing you can do is the best you can and seeking out advice when you’re not sure.

I know how much Noah means to you and am hoping you know that Noah knows that too. I am sure you will figure out the best way to proceed.

hugs
melissa

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