Comments on: Reflections On Loneliness http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2008/01/06/reflections-on-loneliness/ Thu, 10 Feb 2011 04:04:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: risingrainbow http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2008/01/06/reflections-on-loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-370 risingrainbow Tue, 08 Jan 2008 07:33:09 +0000 http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2008/01/06/reflections-on-loneliness/#comment-370 I think that is one of the hard things about being a multiple - the feelings that are shut off behind walls or doors that you know are there somewhere but can not be accessed. For me, I have the opposite thing, I hate to be alone! Although, I don't connect well with people, I am much more comfortable with my horses than I ever will be with people. I think that is one of the hard things about being a multiple – the feelings that are shut off behind walls or doors that you know are there somewhere but can not be accessed.

For me, I have the opposite thing, I hate to be alone! Although, I don’t connect well with people, I am much more comfortable with my horses than I ever will be with people.

]]> By: Melissa http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2008/01/06/reflections-on-loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-367 Melissa Mon, 07 Jan 2008 07:01:45 +0000 http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2008/01/06/reflections-on-loneliness/#comment-367 the totally weird thing is we were writing on this very topic today as we discussed this in T on Saturday. but were too shy to make any of it public. We dont understand lonliness much either--except probably in the last year have had glimpses of it. but yet, we struggle so much in relationships, that we know it is deeply rooted in our past, i think sometimes we never learned how to be connected to other people at all. we like being with people sometimes, but there is always something that makes us want to retreat instead. I think that your mother smothers you so much, that if I were you too I would want to run away too. but just my thoughts. hugs melissa the totally weird thing is we were writing on this very topic today as we discussed this in T on Saturday. but were too shy to make any of it public. We dont understand lonliness much either–except probably in the last year have had glimpses of it. but yet, we struggle so much in relationships, that we know it is deeply rooted in our past, i think sometimes we never learned how to be connected to other people at all. we like being with people sometimes, but there is always something that makes us want to retreat instead.

I think that your mother smothers you so much, that if I were you too I would want to run away too. but just my thoughts.

hugs
melissa

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