Comments on: Still Here, sort of http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2008/04/19/still-here-sort-of/ Sat, 03 Apr 2010 13:19:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Katie http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2008/04/19/still-here-sort-of/comment-page-1/#comment-611 Katie Fri, 02 May 2008 02:10:43 +0000 http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/?p=131#comment-611 Hope you're okay. Haven't seen you post in awhile and I really enjoy your blog. :) Katie Hope you’re okay. Haven’t seen you post in awhile and I really enjoy your blog. :)

Katie

]]> By: risingrainbow http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/2008/04/19/still-here-sort-of/comment-page-1/#comment-598 risingrainbow Sun, 20 Apr 2008 16:53:32 +0000 http://www.multiplereflections.org/journal/?p=131#comment-598 I haven't been writing much either. Sometimes life just gets in the way and sometimes I'm just too tired to write. So I understand how it goes. I'm also not big on leaving my house. I do and I do it a lot but it's really easy for me to find excuses not to go. I have to be on my toes to stop myself from putting it off. Like you, I'm always glad once I actually do go, however, I don't berate myself for it taking longer or being put off when I probably shouldn't. I don't think that helps the situation at all. I think it just adds to it being harder next time to leave. Because to those inside who found it hard to leave because of fear of getting hurt, their fear does pan out if I berate them. That's the last thing I want. I want them to learn it really is ok and they won't be hurt on the outside or on the inside so maybe they can learn it is ok to go. I haven’t been writing much either. Sometimes life just gets in the way and sometimes I’m just too tired to write. So I understand how it goes.

I’m also not big on leaving my house. I do and I do it a lot but it’s really easy for me to find excuses not to go. I have to be on my toes to stop myself from putting it off. Like you, I’m always glad once I actually do go, however, I don’t berate myself for it taking longer or being put off when I probably shouldn’t. I don’t think that helps the situation at all. I think it just adds to it being harder next time to leave. Because to those inside who found it hard to leave because of fear of getting hurt, their fear does pan out if I berate them. That’s the last thing I want. I want them to learn it really is ok and they won’t be hurt on the outside or on the inside so maybe they can learn it is ok to go.

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