we are back and forth about being here, writing, trying to put something out here. we’ve been far away from things and all the issues that were running us over and suffocating us with such intense emotions and pictures of the abuse memories, flashbacks, etc. we’ve been thankful for the break as we desperately have needed it, but at the same time, we know we have to be cautious in how much and how long and to what degree that break is.
we so badly need to write about so many things. we need to process things and yet nothing comes and the emotional or physical energy is zapped and something or someone seems to be silencing things. i suppose Blocker and Eraser and the other Function Keys are busy doing their jobs. and whomever else inside is involved in all of this.
we’ve had some very intense and symbolic dreams that are very revealing about the extent of our processing of various stuff and so many of us believe a lot of deeper processing is going on as we work through some tough healing issues.
there’s pain and sadness and such a deep lack of energy from all of it. sure, some of it is physical related to our anemia but it feels like some is also just the emotional zapping of our life energy that has already been trampled on for so many years and so it really isn’t up to par.
whatever. we are getting chastized for writing what we’ve written. so much criticism from so many inside to a greater degree than usual, or so it seems. i wonder if self-hatred and badness has a need to increase when you are processing stuff that might eventually help release some of that. sort of like don’t you dare get rid of any part of me like that and to make sure you don’t, i’m going to reinforce my stance, grow bigger and stronger, and cage you even further than you were before. roarrrrrr.
we don’t even feel like finishing with tagging things or categorizing things. i mean it is common to be overwhelmed to do it and thus the exhaustion comes with it and just unable to cope with it and so we pass it up ‘for later.’ we still have sooo many entries left to tag and categorize properly amongst all the other entries with backups that we need to import and also tag and categorize, etc. we always manage to forget that when we are torn between wanting to come here to our journal and do something, write something, etc., that even when we find we can’t do it after all, that there is always the need to review entries and do the organizing of them. even the ones we’ve tagged and categorized already, they also need reviewing because sometimes (like this one), we’ve been only able to tag a few things and haven’t thoroughly thought and decided on whether to add any more, etc.
uggh, the self-hate and mean commentary is getting stronger. we’re just going to shut up. it seems easier right now cuz i just don’t have the energy to try and fight back. it hurts too much no matter what. and yes, according to the commentary, we are babies because of that and need to grow up and shut the fuck up and get over it and be okay and fine and on and on it goes.
us, julies